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Virtual Trauma Coaching for Adults

Your Past May Explain Your Patterns.

It Doesn't Have to Decide Your Future.

Trauma coaching helps you understand how past experiences may be shaping your reactions, relationships, and decisions, and then practice choices that fit the life you’re building now.

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You Keep Noticing the Same Pattern…
So Why Is It So Hard to Change?

You may have read the books or spent time in therapy, and certain moments still catch you off guard. Some of these may sound familiar:
  • You say yes before you’ve decided whether you actually wanted to, and then spend the evening resenting it.
  • You set a reasonable boundary and then feel guilty about it for days, wondering whether you were too harsh.
  • You keep ending up in the same kind of relationship, even when the people involved seem different at first.
  • A small comment can stay with you all day, long after the other person has forgotten it.
  • You know what you want to do differently, but in the moment, the old response arrives first.
Understanding your past is powerful, but it’s not the same as creating your future.

Turn Insight Into Different Choices

Coaching focuses on what happens in real moments, such as the conversation you’ve been avoiding, the decision you keep second-guessing, or the reaction that shows up faster than you’d like.
In Forward Thinking Trauma Coaching, we work together to help you:
Recognize old protective patterns, such as people-pleasing, overexplaining, or second-guessing yourself, and understand what they may have been protecting you from.
Notice the pause between reaction and response, so you have more opportunity to choose what you do next.
Set boundaries you can stay with, even when someone else is disappointed.
Build relationships based on mutual respect rather than fear of conflict or a sense of obligation.
Understand how your past may still be shaping the choices and decisions you make today.
Trust your own judgment and make decisions that fit the life you want to build now.
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I’ve Walked This Path Too

I worked for years as a school psychologist and behaviorist, and I hold a Master’s degree in Psychology and a Bachelor’s degree in Human Development. I’m also a Certified Trauma Coach and a Certified Facilitative Leadership Coach. That work taught me to ask what a behavior does for a person before deciding what it says about them.

My understanding also comes from my own experience with trauma, loss, and rebuilding. I know what it’s like to understand a pattern and still find yourself repeating it. Much of what I teach now is what helped me make different choices in my own life.

Serena Renee: Founder of Forward Thinking Trauma Coaching

My understanding also comes from my own experience with trauma, loss, and rebuilding. I know what it’s like to understand a pattern and still find yourself repeating it. Much of what I teach now is what helped me make different choices in my own life.

Turning Awareness Into Action

Today, I combine psychology-based, trauma-informed insight with practical coaching to help you close the gap between understanding a pattern and changing what you do when it shows up.

If you’re tired of circling the same patterns and want support practicing something different, I’d be glad to work with you.

Trauma Coaching vs. Trauma-Informed Coaching

Many coaches describe their work as “trauma-informed.” That usually means they understand how past experiences can affect people and they work with care. It’s valuable, and it often stops at understanding.

Trauma coaching goes a step further.

It helps you understand what happened and how it may still be influencing you, and then practice what you want to do differently now.
At Forward Thinking, trauma coaching is an active, practical process that helps you:
  • Identify how past patterns still influence your present
  • Rebuild trust in your own judgment
  • Notice your reactions sooner so you can respond with more choice
  • Use leadership and coaching skills to turn insight into action
It bridges the space between understanding a pattern and changing what you do when it shows up.
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Your Path Forward

01
Schedule an Insight Call
Start with a free Insight Call to talk about where you are, what you’re hoping will change, and whether this approach is a good fit. You’ll leave with more clarity about your next step, whether or not we work together.
02
Begin Coaching
Weekly virtual sessions give you personalized guidance, practical tools, and accountability as you practice new responses in real situations.
03
Lead Yourself Into the Future You Want
Over time, you may notice old protective patterns sooner and choose responses that feel more intentional and more like you.
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Client Experiences

What Changes When a Pattern Becomes Visible

I feel better and I live differently now.
I spent years in therapy understanding why I was stuck but understanding wasn’t enough. I was still overwhelmed, reactive, and caught in the same emotional cycles, even though I knew better. What changed everything was learning how to lead myself forward. With the right support, I stopped waiting to feel different and started making choices from a place of clarity and ownership. I feel better and I live differently now. And that’s something I created for myself.
Ashley B.
Executive Director
I don’t abandon myself in hard moments.
I used to either shut down or explode. I didn’t know there was another way. Through this process, I learned how to pause, stay with myself, and respond with intention. I don’t abandon myself in hard moments anymore. I finally trust the way I show up.
Samantha R.
HR Director
I make decisions that reflect who I am.
So much of my identity was wrapped up in who I was for others. I didn’t know how to choose myself without guilt. Now, I make decisions that reflect who I am, not who I had to be. I’m becoming someone I recognize.
Marcus T.
Nurse
My relationships feel more grounded.
I used to second-guess everything; my boundaries, my worth, even my ability to grow. I knew the patterns were there, but I didn’t know how to change them. What made the difference was learning how to meet those patterns with compassion and structure. I gained insight and I rebuilt a sense of identity I could trust. My relationships feel more grounded, and I feel like I’m leading my life instead of reacting to it.
Devon R.
Creative Director

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FAQS

What is the difference between a trauma coach and a therapist?

Therapy is a licensed clinical service that can diagnose and treat mental health conditions. Coaching does not diagnose or treat. As a trauma coach, I help you understand how past experiences may be influencing your present patterns, and then practice new responses and build trust in your own judgment. Some people work with a therapist and a coach at the same time.

What are the common signs that past trauma is still affecting me today?

There isn’t a single checklist, and not every pattern comes from trauma. Some people notice that they stay on alert even when things seem fine, react strongly to small moments, or feel guilty after setting a reasonable boundary. Others keep ending up in similar relationships or second-guess decisions as soon as someone disagrees. Patterns like these can have many influences. Coaching can help you understand what yours may be protecting you from and whether it still fits your life now.

What is emotional security, and how does it relate to trauma?

Emotional security means being able to say what you think and feel without bracing for the consequences, and trusting your own reactions enough to act on them. Past experiences can make that harder, especially if expressing yourself once led to conflict, criticism, or withdrawal. In coaching, we look at where that expectation shows up now and practice responses that fit your present relationships.

How many sessions will I need, and how long does trauma coaching take?

Everyone’s process is different. I offer 3, 6, and 12-month packages to meet you where you are.

· 3 Months: A focused reset to refine tools and stay consistent.
· 6 Months: Time to create real change and build steady momentum.
· 12 Months: Deep, sustained work for lasting transformation.

Reach out for an Insight Call and we can decide together which option best supports your goals.

Does insurance cover trauma coaching?

Coaching isn’t considered medical treatment, so it isn’t covered by insurance. Some clients are able to use an FSA or HSA to pay for sessions, depending on their plan. Many people choose to invest in coaching because it offers practical tools and support for real situations in their lives.

What kind of qualifications or training should a trauma coach have?

Look for a coach with specific training in trauma and a clear understanding of where coaching ends and therapy begins. My background includes work as a school psychologist and behaviorist, a Master’s degree in Psychology, and certifications in trauma coaching and facilitative leadership coaching. I also recognize when someone may benefit from therapy instead of, or alongside, coaching, and I always work within ethical boundaries.

Your History Deserves Context. Your Future Deserves Consideration Too.

If understanding the pattern hasn’t been enough to change what happens when it shows up, coaching may be a useful next step.
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Together, we’ll focus on practical tools, clear direction, and steady accountability as you practice responding differently.
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